It's Not Me, It's You.
Updated: Mar 5, 2021
Have You Ever Heard This Before It's Not Me, It's You. The biggest lie ever... "its not me, its you." It's reverse psychology. To make the other person feel guilty for being in a relationship with them by throwing their unwanted feelings towards their mate about how wrong his/her life is for being in a relationship with them. Rest assured this is definitely a warning that means you are about to get dumped. It's a sneaky way of wiggling their way out of a relationship while causing yourself the least amount of grief possible. Phrase definition: It's not you, it's me is a popular phrase used in the context of breaking up, and is intended to ease the dumpee's feeling in the knowledge that it wasn't their fault, but rather the fault of the dumper.- Wikipedia
By Omar Liles